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Clarence Snyder at 17
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This is my 20th post for the “
52Ancestors in 52 Weeks” challenge initiated by Amy Johnson Crow of the “No Story
Too Small” blog.
I love the kindness and
generosity of genea-bloggers. Dara McGivern of
Black Raven Genealogy found my grandparents’ marriage license and sent me a link to it and now I have
a digital copy, which I will share below [it’s an interesting one ;-) ] Thank
you Dara!
My grandfather, Clarence Weldon Snyder
was born on March 22, 1910 to
Philip Snyder and Pearl Pauline Bailey Snyder. His parents had been married almost exactly one year and he was their
first child. At the time of his birth,
his father worked in the timber business in Findlay, Ohio. They went on to have
two daughters and two more sons:
Christina Belle (1911-1942) [link], Phyllis
Ardyeth (1914- 2005), Paul Alexander (1915 – 1975), and
Donald (1918-2012)
[link].
Grandpa Snyder, Clarence, made
the paper less frequently than my
Grandma Snyder (Mabel) did, and although I
know there was one I have been unable to find a copy of his obituary, so I have
less documented on him than I have on my grandmother. But I did find his and
Mabel’s 1927 high school year book on Ancestry.com, and that was cool!
My grandmother and grandfather
knew each other in high school and dated.
My grandfather, Clarence Snyder, played football his junior and senior
years and was the captain of the football team his senior year. He also played on the basketball team. He was
secretary and treasurer of the Varsity Club and a member of the Senior Hi-Y
Club (which was a club that promoted “clean speech, clean sport, clean
scholarship and clean living throughout the school and community.”). He was
also president of the Student Council during his senior year [which gifted him
with the task of organizing class reunions from then on].
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Captain of his High School Football Team
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At college, Ohio University, he
was a member of the Sigma Chi fraternity which was focused on creating “a
lifelong commitment to strive to achieve true friendship, equal justice and the
fulfillment of learning as part of our overall responsibilities to the broader
communities in which we live.” Here’s a
neat fact: he played center on the last Ohio University football team to beat Ohio State
University! (OSU then refused to schedule any other Ohio colleges for many
years – talk about sour grapes!)
Clarence and Mabel secretly got
married while Clarence was still in college, on January 5, 1929, in Crawford
County Ohio by a minister in Bucyrus Ohio; then she returned to her home with
her mother and sister and he continued with college, until he graduated and
they could be together. The interesting part about the marriage license
application is that they both lied about their ages – he said he was 22 and she
said she was 21 (they were both 18), and she may have lied about her residence,
as she reports that she is living in Crestline in Crawford County Ohio (a small
town between Bucyrus and Mansfield, Ohio) and I have nothing else placing her
there – but it may be that I have nothing else placing her there yet. I know that it is my grandparents’ license
because its states the groom was born in
Findlay Ohio and his parents of the
groom are as P.A. Snyder (Philip Aaron) and Pauline Bailey, and the bride was
born in “Lewisville” Illinois and her parents are Verne Erwin and Frances
Hartman. I don’t know why they lied about their ages, even at 18 they were
above the legal marriageable age in Ohio at that time. For those relatives concerned with whether the
lies voided the marriage, likely not. [My first legal job was for the Legal Aid
Society of Dayton Ohio, in the Domestic Relations unit. It’s been awhile so I
double-checked my recollection to the extent I could (this is not to be
considered legal advice). ] Lying about
one’s age on the Marriage License Application is not considered to be lying
about a material fact since they were of legal age anyway and would thus not
void the marriage. Likewise, lying about one’s place of residence – if she did –
is also not considered to be a material fact and would not void the marriage.
Moreover, assuming arguendo that it did, Ohio recognized common law marriage
until 1993 and they fit the Ohio requirements for that (mutual consent to be
married; mutual intent to marry; consider themselves as husband and wife; be
legally capable of entering into a valid marriage; cohabit and hold themselves
to the public as husband and wife). So either way, the marriage is legal and my
mother and her siblings are legitimate.
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Clarence Snyder & Mabel Erwin Application for Marriage License and Marriage Certificate
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By 1933, Mabel and Clarence were
living together as man and wife in Findlay Ohio, at 301 E. Main Cross Street,
and he was working as a teacher. He
taught Chemistry and Physics. Their
first child was born to them the next year in Findlay. (Note, I will not be
giving names or exact birthdates as the children are living.) In 1935, the couple lived in Jewett, Ohio, in
Harrison County, where he taught Chemistry and Physics, coached football and
basketball , and was promoted to Principal. They had four children in six years
and then nearly a decade later another two children.
When Clarence and Mabel started
their family it was at the height of the Great Depression, when it was extremely
difficult to find work and provide for one’s family. In 1932, Ohio's unemployment rate for all
residents reached 37%; and those who retained their jobs usually faced reduced
hours and wages. Many people couldn’t
afford to pay their property taxes and so school districts were underfunded.
Many teachers had their salaries cut, and there was no money for supplies. Many
schools cut both the school day and the school year; some simply closed. It was
a rough time to be in education. I don’t know whether he lost his job or left it
but by 1939 the family was living in St. Clairsville, Ohio and Clarence was a
salesman at a car dealership. This was also an awful job to have in the
Depression because automobiles were still a luxury item and people weren’t
buying luxury goods then. But Clarence took the jobs he could find to try to
support his growing family. Grandpa
supplemented the family table by hunting and fishing; and when she was old
enough ,my mother would go hunting with him. She remembers eating squirrel stew
at times.
As WWII spread across Europe in
1939 and 1940, the U.S. government and military began to lay a infrastructure
to support the war, building 67 ordnance factories across the country (on
approximately 44 million acres of land taken by eminent domain from private
citizens), and recruiting workers to staff them. Recruiters especially sought
those with science backgrounds. The jobs were to be temporary, for the duration
of the war, but they were attractive because they were secure and meant a steady paycheck for the duration; they were patriotic; and
since they were deemed “essential”, a person working there would not be sent
overseas to fight. Due to his chemistry
and physics coursework in college, Clarence was offered a choice between
working at the Plum Brook munitions/TNT plant about 5 miles south of Sandusky, Ohio or at the Atomic Bomb project
in Oak Ridge, Tennessee. Mabel objected to the primitive conditions at Oak
Ridge, so they took the Plum Brook job and moved to Huron Ohio, on Lake Erie. Plumbrook’s
first production line of TNT started on November 15, 1941 – 22 days before the
attack on Pearl Harbor (Plumbrook eventually produced more than one billion
pounds of ordnance throughout World War II -- over 400,000 pounds per day).
Even though it was steady,
necessary work, it was not an easy place to work. A history of Plum Brook put
together by NASA noted that since the buildings were considered temporary, they
weren't insulated sufficiently for the cold Ohio winters, and workers worked in
their heaviest coats as “icy blasts tore through the warped window casings,”
and managers regularly had to brush snow off their desks. Plum Brook employees
were also subject to strict conservation and rationing for the war, and were
strongly encouraged to set aside 10% of their pay to buy war bonds. They saved
gas by carpooling or biking to work (even in the winter). Many families planted “Victory gardens” to
supplement their food needs as the federal
government imposed rationing on the American people to limit the amount of
scarce goods civilians could purchase (so more could be sent overseas), starting
in the spring of 1942, the rationing eventually came to include sugar, meats,
butter, oils, cheese, juices, dry beans, soups, baby food, ketchup, and
bottled, canned, and frozen fruits and vegetables. Clarence and Mabel maintained a garden , and Clarence continued to go hunting and fishing for the
family table.
In September 1942, Clarence’s
sister
Christina died in a car crash that also severely injured her husband.
Directly after the accident, Clarence and Mabel took in one of Christina’s
daughters, intending to raise her as their own, but the father’s family asked
to take care of her pending her father’s recovery, and the girl was sent to Florida
to live with them instead.
Also late in 1942, Clarence’s
brother,
Don, who was in the Army, was sent off to the Pacific Theatre to fight the Japanese. So at
this time, Clarence was working in very difficult conditions, trying to support
his wife and four daughters, grieving the death of his sister and fearful for
the safety of his youngest brother. The stress load must have been enormous. But
many at Plum Brook and around the country were suffering similar stresses and
so they weren’t ever talked about. After the surrender of Japan, production at
Plum Brook came to a halt.
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Clarence W. Snyder, 1943
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After the war, in the late 40’s
and throughout the 1950’s, the family’s economic station improved. Clarence
became a manufacturer’s representative for a variety of toy and sporting goods companies,
going around to retail stores and chains in his territory and convincing their
buyers to purchase his clients' products. Mabel kept the books for Clarence’s
business, utilizing her accounting degree. As the economy as a whole improved,
people were more willing to spend money on frivolous items, and as the soldiers
and sailors came home the baby boom followed, and Clarence benefitted by both. Although you have to wonder how his family
felt as he travelled a lot for his job and, at times, was gone for a month at a
time. Clarence established a tradition of taking each of his kids, in turn,
with him, at least once, on a trip to Detroit, so they could see a big city.
In 1958, their youngest daughter,
at age 12, had to have spinal fusion surgery that required eight months
thereafter in a body cast. While she was in the hospital, Clarence and Mabel
had the carport converted into a room to hold a hospital bed so that she could
be cared for at home. As Clarence did
not have insurance, expense of the surgery and other medical care was paid for
in cash. Later, his son needed ear surgery while in college.
All of Clarence and Mabel’s kids
worked and saved money towards their college education – I think it is
admirable that Clarence and Mabel fostered a family mindset that said, of
course, their daughters and son would go to college (that still wasn't normal
for girls) but were honest and let them know that they must earn money to help
pay for college because they couldn't pay for college for six kids alone. I also understand that Grandpa had a standing,
partially facetious, offer to give any daughter who eloped $1000 [the
equivalent of $6929 now] - none of them took him up on that (I think Grandma
would have been very upset if they had, even though she had eloped).
Later after his older girls got
married and began having families, I would say that us grandkids loved his job
as a toy salesman because he would give us his samples; he gave us some of the
biggest and best stuffed animals, dolls, stuffed football player dolls, and
fascinating board games! I loved my stuffed animals.
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Me, Grandpa, and a cousin
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In Huron, Ohio, Clarence was
active in his local Presbyterian Church and served as a deacon several times.
He was also active in the Freemasons, and was elected Commodore of the local
yacht club multiple times (he had a yacht named “Our Toy”, which won an award
for being the “prettiest” in a regatta in 1964). He was also President of their
home owners associations at Grand Forest Beach and later Beach Wood Cove,
helping to insure that the city put drainage ditches and sidewalks in the
neighborhoods.
My grandfather had a daredevil
streak in him. I have heard stories of him swimming across the Sandusky Bay of Lake Erie to get a package of hamburger and
swimming back holding it above his head, out of the water; he also swam across
the Hocking River while in college; he would ride a bicycle on the pier so
close to the edge that his children were afraid that he would fall in, and then
he would repeat it – riding backwards.
Once he picked up hitchhikers who pulled a gun on him, then hit him with
it and knocked him out. I remember riding with him in a car that was going so
fast on the hills that we went airborn in our seats as we crested the hills – I
also remember my brothers excitedly telling Mom about it when we got back to
the Camp…Mom was not amused, and told him off! I don’t think we were allowed to
ride with him again.
In or about 1969, when I was
about 9, Clarence & Mabel retired to Yankeetown Florida, where they bought
a house near the Withlacoochee River, on one of the inland waterways, a canal.
I remember going to visit them several times. I have a vivid memory of an
alligator crawling out of the canal into the backyard. I don’t know if that happened more than once,
but once was enough for me! After
retirement to Florida, Clarence got restless and purchased and operated a 7/11
store there. I have vague memories of the store. He was an active member of the
Parson’s Memorial Presbyterian Church and loved singing in the choir. He was
also a member of the Masons, and liked to play golf with Mabel and with male
friends, including his brother, who lived in the area.
Unfortunately, Mabel developed
dementia in her later years. After awhile it got to the point that Clarence
could not care for her at home and he moved her to the Crystal River Geriatrics
Center in about 1982. Clarence died about two years later of leukemia.
His body was returned to Findlay Ohio and buried in the Maple Grove cemetery.
Mabel was buried beside him after her death in 1990.
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I would like to find more
documentation/pictures of his years between 1940 and 1982.
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You're welcome, Jo :-) It is exciting that they eloped. I wonder why they felt they needed to lie about their ages.
ReplyDeleteI've no real idea, unless they were afraid that they wouldn't be able to get the license without their parents finding out if they reported their real ages -- their families may have felt they were too young for that kind of commitment
DeleteUncle Clarence!!!! My FAVORITE Uncle!!! We did everything together!! Thank you so much for posting this. I am Pete Snyder, Missionary to China, Pearl Pauline Bailey's Sister (Clarence's aunt) "Aunt Myrtle" inspired me. I too have been in China over 30 years - and am leaving tomorrow! I am the grandson of Christine - Clarence's sister. I don't know which child lived with Clarence after Christine's death - perhaps it was my Mother, Bettie. Missionary to Haiti for 48 years. I will cone home and see her next week. Again!!! Uncle Clarence was my HERO!! I often stayed with him and Mabel in Florida. Dr. Peter Scott Snyder (funny, I was a teacher too!)
ReplyDeleteHi Pete,
DeleteIt's Jo.
I know who you are. 😊 We've been talking through Ancestrydotcom. I'm glad you liked the post. I know who stayed with my grandpa and grandma after Christine's death, it's just my policy (and that of a lot of geneabloggers) not to name living people in my blog. [My own family is paranoid about being named on the internet and I promised not to name anyone who was alive without specific permission.] I believe your mother lived with her grandparents- Philip and Pauline Snyder after the accident. Welcome home!
Pete, I tried to forward you an email inquiry about Myrtle to the AOL address I had for you but it won't go through. When you get back to the states, could you give me a good email to reach you at. My email address is henn.jo@hotmail.com.
DeleteWho are you? This is my great uncle on my mother's side, the toy and comics man. I can still hear this man and Mabel, too as clear as if I spoke to them yesterday. Lots of stories around about Uncle Clarence - I sometimes wonder if they are true. I'll have to read the bio and see.
ReplyDeleteHi Jackson, I'm sorry for such a late response. I just found out tonight that Blogger didn't tell me about a year's worth of comments and I'm trying to play catch up now. I'm Diane's daughter. You're Pete & Philip's brother?
DeleteHe is also our second cousin. Clare's father Phillip and V. A. Snyder on my father's side were first cousins, though they were some 20 years different in age. Do you still have any of Johnny's great Sargent Rock comics? I loved those. And the model antique gangster car - it was a prized posession in the olden days. I also so very much enjoyed getting beaten up several times at Camp Tahome!
ReplyDeleteHi Jackson, I'm guessing that Johnny's comics, if they were still around, went to his kids when he died. I'm going to tell my parents (they owned Camp Ta-Ho-Mee) that you landed on my blog somehow and that you still remember the Camp, they'll be so happy -- not that you were beaten up though. I was there too. Do you remember me? I was the only young girl at the Camp.
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